EMOTIONAL and PSYCHOLOGICALEmotional abuse can have many characteristics Some of the more commonly reported forms include:
yelling
silent treatment
raging
mind games/gaslighting
forced to do degrading acts
putdowns
name calling
controlling
jealous/possessive
ridicule/sarcasm
isolation from family & friends
bringing up the past
manipulating
controlling
blaming
belittlement
stalking (physical and virtual)
harassment
destruction of property
reckless driving
threats (to cause physical harm, take kids away, to reveal your secrets)
using children against you
lying about you to family, friends, co-workers
threats of killing self/partner/children/pets
PHYSICALSome examples of physical abuse include:
hitting
kicking
pushing
threatening with weapons (that includes a fist)
shoving
use of weapons
slapping
grabbing/shaking
restraining/not allowing to leave
punching
burning
choking
hair pulling
pinching
withholding medical treatment
biting
sleep deprivation
spitting
withholding food
cutting
physical intimidation
withholding medical attention
exposing you to harsh elements (ex. locking you out in the cold)
ECONOMIC OR FINANCIAL Many people do not recognize financial abuse but it is a common means that abusive individuals use to control their partners. This type of abuse may include:
allowing no access to money
withholding money or credit cards
making you account for every penny you spend
running up bills
controlling of money and finances, restricting you to an allowance
withholding financial information
taking and/or belittling your financial contribution
threatening to cut off financial support if you leave